Advice on entering swinger world

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So, I'm searching for sound advice, from both men and women on the best practice for starting a swinger lifestyle. You see, I used to have a great sex life. Amazing. But two kids later, and slowing metabolism has made my sex life next to dead. I adore exotic women, women of any color, and have only been with white women. Asian has always been a fantasy of mine. Absolutely think they are the goddesses of the earth.
At any rate, looking for advice on first steps in getting into the swinger scene. I love my family but really need the intimacy of an active sex life again. Not just meaningless sex, with a cum shot. A partner to explore and fulfill fantasy.
So, what advice is out there? Love to hear from everyone.